10 of 30 Things to Stop Doing To Yourself and Start Doing For Yourself

Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. – If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either.  You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else.  

What do you say when a person asks you; how are you?  Do you tell them you are ok when you really don't feel ok?  Do you tell them; if only you could get a better job, if only you could make more money, if only you could find someone who loves you for you, you would be happy?  WM of PBC

Start creating your own happiness. – If you are waiting for someone else to make you happy, you’re missing out.  Smile because you can.  Choose happiness.  Be the change you want to see in the world.  Be happy with who you are now, and let your positivity inspire your journey into tomorrow.  Happiness is often found when and where you decide to seek it.  If you look for happiness within the opportunities you have, you will eventually find it.  But if you constantly look for something else, unfortunately, you’ll find that too.  Read Stumbling on Happiness.

Depending on yourself for happiness can be a fun and exciting journey.  If you don't create a happy self fulfilling life for yourself, how is anyone going to know how to make you happy?  Don't think the grass is always greener over there, because once you step across and haven't made the changes to increase your own happiness within, you will only be disappointed by the trip.  WM of PBC