Obstacles challenge you and how your react to them. Devising a plan of attack before it becomes a huge problem will help you overcome the obstacle. Of course life does throw out some scenarios that you just can't plan for, but you can stay one step ahead by knowing what you want your life to be and how you generally want to react in situations that seem to be out of your control. Allowing yourself to recognize that it is just an obstacle also allows you to make different choices.
Some of the most common obstacles we experience throughout our lives are:
- Not recognizing that it is only temporary;
- Finding it hard to know where to begin;
- Having a plan when an obstacle throw you for a loop;
- Encouraging others to do their best, yet we don't take our own advice;
- Doing for everyone else and putting our lives on the back burner;
- Letting our dreams get buried because we make our lives so busy;
- Not pursuing what we love;
- Reacting to what life throws at us, instead of creating a proactive plan;
- Wasting time on stuff that really doesn't serve us;
- Not knowing how to plan and set goals to achieve our dreams;
- Giving up when life doesn't happen the way you think it should;
- Making the wrong choices;
- Not learning from our wrong choices and doing it over and over again.
Encourage yourself to step out of your comfort zone and visualize how you want to live your life and the lifestyle that you dream of. Start taking small steps toward creating that life. Create a plan and a backup plan for each step. When you hit a roadblock, step back, think about what you need to do and then move past it.
When we are in the moment, we think its the worst it will ever be. Sometimes it is and unfortunately it can always get worse before it gets better. But it does get better and each time you prepare before the obstacle shows up, it gets easier too. Looking back helps you realize that yes you did go through rough times, but you also have to pat yourself on the back because you did make it through.