16 of 30 Things to Stop Doing To Yourself and Start Doing For Yourself

Stop being jealous of others. – Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own.  Ask yourself this:  “What’s something I have that everyone wants?”

Stop looking at others and wishing your life was like theirs.  Your life may actually be better than theirs.  Most people don't live their true authentic life, they put a facade and pretend that everything is ok.  Do you want to live that way too?

Start cheering for other people’s victories. – Start noticing what you like about others and tell them.  Having an appreciation for how amazing the people around you are leads to good places – productive, fulfilling, peaceful places.  So be happy for those who are making progress.  Cheer for their victories.  Be thankful for their blessings, openly.  What goes around comes around, and sooner or later the people you’re cheering for will start cheering for you.


When you see the good in others and congratulate them for their success's, it not only creates a calm within you but it also opens you up to enjoying others happiness.  Don't always think that everyone is doing better than you, they may be suffering and just putting on that everything is ok face.  Spread your happiness and good will and your life will not have room for jealously.  Be your true authentic self and watch the doors open to better things.