13 of 30 Things to Stop Doing To Yourself and Start Doing For Yourself

Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. – Relationships must be chosen wisely.  It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.  There’s no need to rush.  If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.


Has anybody other than me been in this situation?  I know that over the years I went from living at home as a child, getting pregnant and raising children as a child, to divorcing and going into relationships that I probably shouldn't have because I didn't take time for me.  It wasn't until a couple years ago that I actually spent time as a single person, finally creating some boundaries for myself and what I wanted in a relationship.  WM of PBC


Start entering new relationships for the right reasons. – Enter new relationships with dependable, honest people who reflect the person you are and the person you want to be.  Choose friends you are proud to know, people you admire, who show you love and respect – people who reciprocate your kindness and commitment.  And pay attention to what people do, because a person’s actions are much more important than their words or how others represent them.

I finally took charge of my life and the kind of relationship I wanted to be in.  You can't control everything and relationships are hard, but if there are parts that really don't resonate with how you want to live, how you deserve to be treated then you and only you can make the choice to end that relationship.  Treat yourself how you treat others and it really does make a difference in the relationships you find yourself in.  WM of PBC